First CNY as Mrs Lover

CNY was barely a month after the big day. Have not recuperate from the hectic schedule and was again rushing for new clothes, food, organising reunion dinners with lotsa of parties.I cannot imagine my credit card bill and the phone bill to come.

According to custom, first year dun need to give hong baos. :p But hong baos to parents, grandparents are still a must. ** We are filial fellows :P **

The difference this year is more houses to visit, more coordination to be done, more teasing....everybody loves kid i suppose

Happy Chinese New Year to all....and wish all of you love, luck, wealth and health.

Joy not joyful

We create our own unhappiness.
The purpose of suffering is to help us understand we are the ones who cause it.
Willie Nelson

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This is how I feel about today. Today Joy is not joyful. Why? Partly cause I mind others' business too much. On how it will affect someone and maybe the team if this person leaves without proper hand over. 'Cos I have seen how bad things could be.

Yes I am loud. Yes I am not very high in EQ or super duper technically trained. So in that case, stay away from me. Free me from being framed or caught in some shit that I know nuts about. Just 'cos I happen to be free and took over half-completed work which no one wants.

My new resolution of the year: TO BE LESS ACTIVE/LESS TALKATIVE aka ZEN.